I know. I know. A nighttime cleaning routine sounds like too much work, but hear me out.
Nighttime is for putting up your feet and forgetting about the state of the house, right? I used to think so too… until I got in the habit of a daily reset in the evenings. And now I’ll never go back!
A daily home reset is truly the key to creating a peaceful home.
And the great news? It’s actually not all that much work. I’m not asking you to do any deep cleaning here. This nighttime cleaning routine is simple and achievable, even for us tired mums at the end of a long day.
I don’t enjoy cleaning. I never have been someone who cleans for fun, or because I’m angry about something, or because I need an outlet while I process my thoughts. Nope. I have often wished to be more inclined this way, but it seems it’s just not God’s plan for me to fall in love with cleaning.
However, for some reason, I really look forward to my nighttime cleaning routine.
There’s something peaceful about working through my home, room by room, and getting it all settled for the night. It’s almost as though little pieces of myself are sliding back into place.
And I’ll be honest – there’s something even more peaceful about waking up in a home that’s been resting quietly overnight. Think about it – would you rather walk out to the living room first thing in the morning to yesterday’s mess of toys and chaos, or to a clean slate? We all know the answer to that question.
What are the benefits of resetting your home at night?
- You feel good. Obviously.
- Your family feels good – whether or not they’re conscious of it, your kids are less distracted and happier when they come out in the morning to a tidy, put-together home.
- It teaches your kids to value tidiness and cleanliness. Yep, when they’re old enough, they’ll start to realize the difference it truly makes.
- It helps prevent your home from getting too out-of-control because it’s being tended to daily.
- It creates space for you to get those bigger chores done in the morning. Think about it – if the toys are already picked up and the floors are already swept, how quick and easy will it be to pull out the vacuum after breakfast and get that ticked off your list?
- It helps you wind down for bedtime by giving you a simple, screen-free task to focus on.
Starting to feel convinced that nighttime chores are the way to go?
Though it might be hard to psyche yourself up to get it done at first, it can and will become a habit. And the more often you’re doing it (obviously every single night is ideal!), the less time it’s going to take you to execute it.
Little tips that will help you develop the nightly home reset habit:
1. Get started as soon as the kids are in bed.
Don’t sit down for a quick breather or you’ll lose your momentum. Trust me – get straight into it. If I’m tempted to plop down on the couch to watch an episode or scroll through Facebook, I’m kind of done for the night. It’s extremely hard to rally out of that relaxed state in order to do chores.
2. Set the mood.
Put on a gentle, moody playlist and if you can, switch off or dim some of the main lights and turn on the lamps instead. While more heavy-handed cleaning jobs tend to be more bearable in bright daylight and with an upbeat playlist, a moodier tone for your evening chores will help achieve that sense of peace in the home.
3. Start with something small and achievable
I rarely begin my evening home reset by tackling the overwhelming amount of scattered toys throughout the whole house. I need a small taste of victory before I’m feeling pepped up enough for that! So I wash the dinner dishes. Or I clean the stovetop. Or I simply load the washing machine, ready for the next day. These small wins get me in the right mindset to step up to the bigger jobs.
4. Plan a small reward to look forward to.
A cup of yummy herbal tea, a few chapters of a book, half an hour of knitting. These might be things you would be incorporating into your evening anyway – now you’re just making them extra special by “working for them”.
5. Involve your husband (if you want to).
I usually prefer to do the routine by myself while Chris plays video games or studies – not because I believe he deserves the break and I don’t, but because I just enjoy the sense of accomplishment I get from completing my nighttime chores alone. But some nights I’ll happily rope him into washing the dishes, putting away laundry, and tidying the toys with me, and it’s actually a weirdly nice way to connect with him at the end of a long day – we chat, we laugh, and we bond over our shared bamboozlement over how impressively our kids can mess the place up in one day.
A daily home reset is ultimately about making things easier for you the next day.
Evening chores are not a punishment, so try not to view them that way! Developing this habit is actually a wonderful way for mums to self-care and honour themselves.
If you’re ready to have a more peaceful home, here are some chores to being incorporating into your nighttime cleaning routine:
- Load the washing machine ready for the next day
- Fold and put away the day’s laundry
- Clean the kitchen
- Wash the dishes
- Wipe down the sink area, cupboard doors and bench
- Clean the stovetop
- “Pick up” in each room:
- throw away rubbish
- collect dirty clothes (we all have random stinky socks and sweaters that have been shed throughout the course of the day, right?)
- remove out of place items (collect in baskets for each room to make it easy to redistribute)
- Move furniture back in place, close drawers and cupboards, flatten rugs
- Sweep the floors
- Take out the garbage
- Wipe down the bathroom counters
- Water house plants (if they’re thirsty!)
- Top up the ice tray, fill and refrigerate water bottles
- Throw out leftovers from the fridge that have gotten too old
- Take meat from the freezer and begin defrosting in the fridge for tomorrow’s dinner
- Prepare essential oil diffusers with water and oils ready for the morning
- Lay out breakfast items on the bench (non-perishable foods, cooking utensils, plates and cups)
I know it looks like a lot, but try to remember that:
a) Most of the tasks above take only a minute or two,
b) Leaving these tasks for the morning will start your day off on the back foot and can leave you feeling disorganised and overwhelmed before the day has even begun.
c) You personally may find that some of the tasks already fit really nicely into different parts of your day, and if you’re perfectly happy with them being there, there’s no reason to move them into the evening!
The goal here is simply to create a peaceful home.
So if that goal resonates with you, give the nighttime house reset a go and see if it works for you.
(I’m pretty sure it will!)
Do you already have a nightly cleaning routine?
If so, I would love to know what you do for your home in the evenings – let me know in the comments below! Or if you’re going to give my routine a try, take the first step by commenting “I’m in!”
Be sure to check out my list of super helpful daily habits for busy mums who have a lot to juggle in their day-to-day.
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